Give a change to yourself

Everything in life is achieved only when hard work which is equivalent to the need is done.The fear of losing comes in the minds of every individual.In some it actually becomes a fear and in some it becomes the strength.The perception depends upon the person.The perception is very small process but it completely changes the life of the individual.For being good at perception its very important to be optimistic.Just being positive at thought can save a person from being at wrong places or taking wrong decisions.

These days i have been observing life from a very small focus but having a great magnification of the intricacies of its knotty meshwork.I have seen people changing their attitudes,their decisions,their likes,their status.Basically have been looking at the dirty side of the life where people around you or whom you depend upon change themselves and you realise that you been a world biggest fool by hanging around them and counting on them.And the most difficult thing to do at this point is to be optimistic.

So sometimes i wonder How to be optimistic?

Its not always easy to be looking at a glass with half filled perception. When life starts mixing colours which you don't like,its really difficult to look at an ugly picture and boost in front of your friends how cool your life is!

The answer is just around.And the simple ways of fading out those not so loved colours out of picture is:

first believe in yourself that you have a magic eraser,and this eraser is nothing but your will power or in simple words ‘YOUR LOVE FOR YOURSELF’

secondly stay away from things you don’t like and get intimate with things you love.It could be anything like staying away from your guy and being close to your dog.(well good thing is you are not changing the breed). But jokes apart this technique really help you from getting out of the mess.

Third,talk to people,whether you do it by chatting or by increasing your phone bill.But don't fake on it.because the purpose is to give a vent to your depressing thoughts and letting the fresh breeze in.So just don't fake by saying I'm doing cool these days etc etc.don't worry about whether he/she going to talk to you again or not.if they don't,simple they dint deserve to be in your friend list.

And fourth would be,just do things which you haven't done before and you knew you have always wanted to do them like learn driving,watching first day first show of a movie etc.

I believe these four steps are enough to bring a glimpse of optimism in a person.

I'm trying these remedies presently,and going fro first day first show for the movie first time in my life tomorrow.

Hope for best,nothing to loose,just to be a winner as i was born to be.